Coercive-Controlling Behaviours That Kill Parents and Children Dangerousness and Lethality Indicators Little research has been done into how violent, coercive-controlling parental alienating behaviours (by the favoured parent) and parental alienation (the behavioural signs in the child) may lead to murder and suicide where alienated … [Read more...]
Parental Alienation Interventions
Below is a list of blog posts on dealing with parantal alienation by taking action. You may be also interested to read this article: Responding To Alienated Children
Hope for Reconnection and Reunification after Parental Alienation
I have just returned from participating in a symposium on parental alienation: “Parental Alienation: A Critical Problem for Families in Many Countries” presented at the International Congress of Psychology (ICP 2016) in Yokohama, Japan. Six of us representing Japan, U.S.A, Australia and Hong Kong had been working towards this symposium for over a … [Read more...]
Parental Alienation: CONTACT! The Sweet Feeling of Reunification
Nothing lifts my heart more than a telephone call, email or text from a client informing me that they have made contact or received a response from their alienated, rejecting child. This could be after some months or many years and whatever the elapsed time it is the same feeling of relief and joy at reunification and relationship; rejected … [Read more...]
The ‘Irritant Factor’ Approach: Using Seasons Greetings to Undermine the Delusional Relationship between Alienated Children and their Alienating Parent.
So it is the ‘festive season’ for alienated parents and their alienated children. ‘Joy to the world’ indeed. “Do I send a card to my children?” “Should I try and visit them (again)?” “Should I call them?” “Why don't I hear from them?” The absence of alienated children at this time is keenly felt. The same questions come around again. What … [Read more...]
The Alienation Killer, Shared Care
Conventional thinking suggests that levels of shared care need to be reduced in the face of high conflict post separation parenting to favour a single residential parent. This is based upon a premise that children are more sensitive to high conflict between their parents that forces them to choose between them than they are to the loss of a … [Read more...]
Should Alienated Parents Abduct Their Alienated Children?
Would you abduct your own children if you were legally advised to do so? Several clients (alienated or excluded parents) have brought to my attention legal advice they have received to “take their children back” when an alienating parent has contravened orders and taken the children into their care despite orders that the children were spending … [Read more...]